Working hard. But, wanted to give an update on Adam. We went up to see him the other evening, armed with gifts and a huge plate of homemade blondies!
Here's an email that I sent to Adam's social worker (Cleancut) and the directors of the school:
Hi Cleancut, et al,
Tonight, Sam and I came up and took Adam out for dinner. It was the first time we had seen him in 12 days. We weren't quite sure what to expect, so we kept our expectations on the low end. I couldn't have ever imagined that in such a short time we would've seen much of a difference, but even in this short time, we hardly recognize our son and its all good. He was so glad to see us, he behaved like a gentleman, he was related, conversational, engaging, smiling, laughing and for the first time in his 16 years, he seemed to be genuinely, dare I say? happy. He's making friends and likes his roommate, very very much.
Oh sure, he had the expected complaints, here and there, but he didn't dwell on them in the slightest because in the scheme of things, they didn't seem to matter that much. There were just too many other really wonderful things that he needed to share with his parental units. He talked about wanting to be an actor and writing a script, getting to groom a horse for the first time, and working out in the cool fitness center. He has goals and vision. He sees the pie in the sky and he wants his piece of it. And the best part, is that he's totally on board with the program. He really is and its truly a miracle.
We are not complacent, however; we know that there is still much work to be done, but for the first time, on our way back home, Sam and I both concurred, that in time, Adam is going to be just fine.
We couldn't be more thrilled, relieved and eternally grateful for all that you do.
Tonight, Sam and I came up and took Adam out for dinner. It was the first time we had seen him in 12 days. We weren't quite sure what to expect, so we kept our expectations on the low end. I couldn't have ever imagined that in such a short time we would've seen much of a difference, but even in this short time, we hardly recognize our son and its all good. He was so glad to see us, he behaved like a gentleman, he was related, conversational, engaging, smiling, laughing and for the first time in his 16 years, he seemed to be genuinely, dare I say? happy. He's making friends and likes his roommate, very very much.
Oh sure, he had the expected complaints, here and there, but he didn't dwell on them in the slightest because in the scheme of things, they didn't seem to matter that much. There were just too many other really wonderful things that he needed to share with his parental units. He talked about wanting to be an actor and writing a script, getting to groom a horse for the first time, and working out in the cool fitness center. He has goals and vision. He sees the pie in the sky and he wants his piece of it. And the best part, is that he's totally on board with the program. He really is and its truly a miracle.
We are not complacent, however; we know that there is still much work to be done, but for the first time, on our way back home, Sam and I both concurred, that in time, Adam is going to be just fine.
We couldn't be more thrilled, relieved and eternally grateful for all that you do.
Lexie and Sam.
And I got this email from Adam just a little while ago...
receptionist@ourlasthopeinhell.orgHi Mom,
I had a great time as well going out with both of you to dinner, it was a great night. Please do bring that book you have about the screenplay and writing a script next time you visit that would be nice, the email at the top is for the receptionist to let her know about requesting stuff for doing on my birthday like a pizza party and a movie etc. just ask her what their is and if there's any more options than that let me know please. Yes there are still a bit of blondies left haha, have a great night.
Love, Adam 
I told you... All he needed was a little horse manure. ;)
Wowww. I'm inspired. Thank you and Thanks Adam. :)
ReplyDeleteThis is so great, Lexie! It sounds like this place is exceeding all of your expectations. And Adam is happy too-- it's a win-win situation!
ReplyDeleteWishing you well,
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